A renewed purpose to write (overcoming my struggles to write and blog)
I keep disappearing, I know. And I keep promising to be consistent. I’ve been struggling to write and blog for exactly a year now. The ideas became harder and harder to come by. I no longer had topics...
View ArticleVoice: a story of
Growing up I had the perfect poison for extinguishing a voice: I was female, Asian, immigrant, undocumented. Outside our home I learned to stay in the shadows and not rock the boat. Inside the home, I...
View ArticleHow it feels when your mom blogs about you
The following is a true story, written by me, from my son’s voice and point of view. So I’m sitting at the dinner table and I’m in a bad mood. Because I was sorting my Pokémon cards when my mom...
View ArticleFighting in front of our children
Dear Readers, I’ve always been a verbose but quiet blogger, not too unlike how I am in real life. The type who prefers 3 close friends over 300 acquaintances, I’d like to think I make an interesting...
View ArticleWhen baby’s proud of mama
Work has suddenly picked up these two weeks and I haven’t had a chance to write. Then I remembered this post from 2 years ago that was sitting in my drafts folder. Fred’s eyes widened as his mouth...
View ArticleLiving, Loving & Reading: my new blog theme
I’m back from my whirlwind trip through 4 cities in Japan, simultaneously exhausted and energized. So much happened internally for me over the last few weeks, as going back and meeting family and...
View ArticleThoughts on blogging by an ordinary blogger
My blog is four years old today (!). That’s four years longer than any plant I’ve ever owned, a little less than half my son’s lifetime, and a third of the life of my marriage. I’m not putting myself...
View ArticleHappy new year!
I’m so eager to read all the year-end book and recap posts that I’m seeing in my reader, and I also want to post my own lists of favorite books and other 2013 reflections. Alas, I think I’m going to...
View ArticleOn Self-Consciousness, the Fear of Being Judged, and Struggling to Write
I’ve been having a hard time over the last couple of weeks mustering up the energy to write. The struggle is not new; I get hit by this every so often. Emotional and physical fatigue is my biggest...
View ArticleMy Writing Process
One of my favorite bloggers Rudri at Being Rudri tagged me some time ago in this meme about the writing process. I have mentioned Rudri and her wonderful blog before. She writes thoughtful and...
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